Bar Mitzvah & Bat Mitzvah

B'nei Mitzvah invitations your guests will actually respond to

Send a beautiful digital invite, collect RSVPs for each part of the weekend separately — Friday night dinner, Saturday service, Kiddush, evening party — and stop chasing your relatives by phone.

Free · No credit card · Takes 2 minutes

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The Cohen Family invites you to

Ethan's Bar Mitzvah

Saturday, October 24, 2026

Temple Beth El · Chicago

Who's coming

Grandma Ruth✓ Going
Uncle David & Family✓ Going
The Goldsteins? Maybe
Cousin Rachel✓ Going
RSVP now
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Multi-event RSVPs in one place

Friday night dinner, Saturday morning service, Kiddush, and evening party — guests RSVP to each part separately. You always know exact counts per event.

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Automated reminder emails

Schedule reminders at 2 weeks, 1 week, and 3 days before the event. They go out automatically — you don't have to call your extended family one by one.

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Custom questions for dietary needs

Add a kosher/dietary preference question to the RSVP form. Answers are saved per guest and included in your CSV export — exactly what your caterer needs.

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Per-family plus-one caps

Set a maximum number of additional guests per family. No more families showing up with six people when you expected three.

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Export for your caterer

Download your confirmed guest list as a CSV any time. Every response, dietary note, and plus-one count — clean and ready to hand off.

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Works on every phone

Guests RSVP from a link — no app to download, no account to create. Works perfectly on every phone and device your guests use.

100% free

No credit card. No trial period. No catch. Every feature — unlimited guests, reminder emails, CSV export — is free while we're in beta.

Create your B'nei Mitzvah invite

Takes about 2 minutes. No account required to preview.

Common questions

Can I collect RSVPs for the Friday night dinner separately from the Saturday events?

Yes — Let's RSVP supports multi-day events where guests RSVP to each part independently. A guest can say yes to the Saturday service but no to the Friday dinner, and you'll see accurate counts for each.

Can I add a kosher dietary question to the RSVP form?

Absolutely. You can add custom questions (short text, multiple choice, or checkboxes) to the RSVP form. Something like "Dietary restrictions?" or "Meat, fish, or vegetarian?" is easy to set up and the answers export with your guest list.

How do I handle families with many guests?

You can import your guest list from a CSV or add guests manually. Each invitee can have a maximum additional-guest cap — so the Rosenbergs can't bring 8 people when you've said 4 max. You can also group families together with household RSVPs.

Is this really free?

Yes. Every feature — unlimited guests, multi-day events, reminder emails, custom questions, CSV export — is free while we're in beta. No credit card required.

How do I send the invite?

You get a shareable link that works for anyone. You can also import your guest list and send personal invitation emails directly from Let's RSVP — each guest gets their own pre-filled RSVP link.

Ready to send your invite?

It takes about 2 minutes. No account required to start.

Create your B'nei Mitzvah invite